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Practically every person has had some event or events in their life that for one or several reasons has left some emotional scarring or baggage.
NLP Practitioner Training Newcastle upon Tyne
NLP has many tools and processes that are specifically designed to take away the negative emotional charge of past events. The popular name of Change Personal History can describe the class of processes that deal with this.
NLP Master Practitioner Course Newcastle upon Tyne
As a practising clinical hypnotherapist I fully appreciate the immense power of the unconscious mind and the limitless resources and healing powers it contains.

Those past events that are negatively charged are like fragments singled out in time but what came before and what came after?

Something happens to the memory when the event is extend both forwards and backwards in time. It is no longer the same.

I have created a process called Event Scope and Meaning Repatterning - ESMR which harnesses your unconscious mind to create the right resources to change the memory and level the old painful memory.

Check out our free NLP resources  page

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nigel

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Twenty people have chosen to attend the Excellence In Therapy workshop in Newcastle this coming weekend. This unique workshop is sponsored by IntegrityNLP.

The people who are attending range across Therapists, Hypnotherapists, NHS workers, Psychologists, Mental Health Professionals, NLP Practitioners, NLP Master Practitioners, even NLP Trainers.

The workshop is specifically about applying NLP in therapeutic settings and is delivered by Andrew T. Austin who Bill O’Hanlon ( brief therapy ) has described as the “British Milton Erickson”.

This workshop will cover topics like Guilt, Shame, Anxiety, Depression and will look at real therapeutic interventions from an NLP and neurological perspective.

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Reframing is a recurrant theme on our Newcastle NLP Practitioner and NLP Master Practitioner training in Newcastle.

This month on an NLP Trainer Trainer course run by Talisman Training in London one specific reframe, a conceptual change of meaning really struck me. Its the sort of reframe that marketing people will absolutely love.

If you live in the north east you will know what Peas Pudding is, of course you will. Did you know that Peas Pudding is really only know in the North East! And what has this got to do with reframing? - Good Question. Here it is

Peas Pudding - OH THAT! Well that is Northumbrian Hummous!

Love IT!

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Our NLP training course in Newcastle upon Tyne has a great deal of emphasis on practical application. Its not about learning 20 processes in one week and having no real skill as to how to use them. Integrity NLP practitioner courses give you the time to develop and integrate your NLP skills into your life.

Getting More of what you want with NLP

There are just two very simple parts of getting what you want using NLP’s well formed outcome. A full exploration of your outcome and then acting on the information. The full exploration is called a ‘well formed outcome’.

well formed outcome

State what you want, your outcome in the positive. Then in your imagination, See / Feel / Hear / Taste and Smell - exactly what it will be like when you have got your outcome. You require a sensory description!

• “I dont want to get angry” is not stated in the positive, so one way to turn this to the positive can be “I want to be calm”.

• When I am calm “it will be good” is not a sensory description. When I am calm I will be seeing other people next to me, they will be treating me differently, specifically they are talking to me, asking me about my ideas, opinions. I can smell one ladys perfume and notice the smell of coffee. I am in a cafe. I feel relaxed and my shoulders are particularly comfortable

Step 2

Check the possible consequences

• How will getting your outcome affect you, friends, family, others? You can think of this in terms of time, relationships, other commitments and any and all impacts your outcome will have on the relationships with these other people.

• What will you gain, what will you lose and what will stay the same? You can think of this in terms of money, time, relationships…

• How will you sort our potential difficulties? Think about it, what difficulties could arise? What problems are obvious what problems are hidden?

• Where do you want this outcome, where do you not want this outcome? In which physical locations; not at home but at the office.

Step 3

Resources and Control

• What level of control and influence can you bring to bear as resources to attaining your outcome. You have little to zero influence of winning the lottery. You can think of this as is this achievable and how can you make it more so.

• Do you have all the Skills, Understanding, Time and Information to realise your outcome? If you require additional information / skills / time / understandings - where can you get it from, what and where are your resources?

• How will yo overcome and barriers and hurdles?

Step 4

Do you still want this outcome?

• So having explored, examined and gathered information and resources. Do you still want this?

• Is getting your outcome the steps to getting something else?

• When do you want this and what are your next steps?

If you choose to use this process for a specific outcome, run the process three times on the same outcome. Then ACT on the information you have generated. Many people know about this process but seemingly only a few actually use it - be one of those who do.

best wishes

nigel hetherington

Communicating Excellence
Excellence in NLP and Clinical Hypnotherapy

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NLP training in Newcastle and the North East of England and

Clinical Hypnotherapy training in Newcastle and the North East of England

Both top quality trainings will explore and demonstrate a set of language
patterns known as the Milton Model. The Milton Model is a basis for
indirect hypnosis, presentation, sales and the evolution of
experience.

There is a free mp3 trance download ‘miltonlearningtrance’ that is an accompaniment to the Milton Model Patterns document.

to access these free nlp and hypnotherapy resources you just need to request communicating excellence’s occasional news letter.

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Newcastle NLP Practitioner course includes Clean Language. Communicating Excellence and Integrity NLP Practitioner and Master Practitioner courses in Newcastle upon Tyne include Clean Language, the modeled work of David Grove.

Clean Language is an incredibly useful way to operate at the metaphoric level to effect change with people as in therapeutic practice or organisations for team building and project development.

There are 9 Basic clean language questions. You can download these from the FREE NLP Resources section on Communicating Excellence web site you will need to request my free news letter to access the free NLP and Hypnotherapy resources.

cleanly yours
nigel hetherington

Communicating Excellence
Excellence in Neuro Linguistic Programming and Clinical Hypnotherapy

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The NLP cafe is a structured Newcastle NLP Practice group that is sponsored by IntegrityNLP

February’s practice group explored aspects and concepts of Self Esteem and in particular how to increase self esteem in-line with elements of a healthy self concept

Here is a short video from the practice group

Download NLP Cafe - Increasing Self Esteem

The content of the Self Esteem exploration was extracted from Steve Andreas’s excellent book - Transforming Yourself - becoming who you want to be

IntegrityNLP

Learn - Practice - Understand

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NLP is an amazing technology, you could have heard all sorts of claims for it. That it’s a way of developing advanced communicating skills, influencing people, achieving your goals, managing individuals and groups, avoiding the things that you don’t want and getting much more of what you do and so on. But you are not yet ready to invest in a full NLP Practitioner Training to verify these claims for yourself but you clearly are curious about NLP.

Unfortunately you can’t learn NLP from a book! NLP is a very practical set of tools and techniques, reading about it is not the same as doing it, you will find out about NLP by doing NLP.

An excellent way to find out about NLP for yourself is to attend a complete three day Introduction to NLP. During this workshop you will be able to try on NLP for size, get an inside perspective on it and be able to talk it over with experienced NLP Trainers and Master Practitioners.

Because NLP is a practical set of skills and attitudes most of the three days will be spent in supervised practice sessions so you’ll be learning NLP by doing it. Get the experience and skills of what NLP can do for you and how you can start applying NLP by attending this course.

This course will be held over three days at
St Oswald’s Teaching Centre, Gosforth
on
Saturday May 24th, Saturday and Sunday June 14th-15th

Three days comprehensive training for just £95.00

To book a place on this course
email andy@integritynlp.co.uk or

telephone 0191478 2726 or 0770 481 8467

Click here for complete details

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An experiential and memorable two day hands on workshop of themes of excellence  in applied NLP in therapy - presented by Andrew T Austin.

In this two day workshop by Andy Austin you can learn new ways to deal with difficult clients based on the art and science of Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP). As a registered nurse, Andy Austin has worked in casualty, neurological and psychiatric settings. As a therapist he has worked successfully with people that would be considered very difficult clients.

On the first day he will lay the groundwork showing you how we construct our internal experience and how as therapists we can detect what is going on.

On the second day, he’ll demonstrate how to use these skills to create interventions that work with addictive personalities, yo-yo quitters. He’ll address the three pillars Guilt, Anxiety and Depression. and how to help your clients onto a different path.

Who is this course for?
This course is to encourage excellence in therapy and will be useful for

• Therapists

• Hypnotherapists

• NLP Practitioners and Master practitioners

• Counsellors

• Mental Health Professionals

• Psychologists

• Anyone else in the helping professions

Click Here for full details and to book your place now

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Its good, useful and certainly important to know what you really want. To know what you do want, when and where you want it and how you will know you have it are particularly valuable. Its easy to go and create a list things you want. Things you want can include material possessions, like cars, books and clothes or internal states like, increased motivation to achieve ‘X’, or to feel centered, now, it may be something like ‘more aptitude with physical coordination when I am doing ‘Z”. Its really necessary to be as specific as you are able to be specific about what exactly it is you want, that’s so cool! Its obvious that this specification about what you want, perhaps its something really easy and extremely useful like improving ones meta-modelling skills, begins a processes, both internal and external, that can bring about a realisation of what you want and how to get it, now, that’s really interesting ain’t it! And that is what the meta-model is about, being specific, exploring the assumptions and engendering response-ability. Socrates thought this was a good idea, if the ‘Socratic questioning’ model is to be believed’.

the Meta Model essentially does two things when used ‘as intended’

1. It assist stuck clients to change - Therapeutic
2. It gets high quality information - Business / Pleasure / Therapeutic

Additionally the NLP Cafe, a structured, Newcastle NLP Practice group will be open for its first event on Wednesday 9th January 7-9pm. How to resourcefully respond to criticism

Its a snip at £10.00 or just £9.00 if you book online.

Our NLP Practitioner course beginning in January 2008 and the current Integrity NLP Practitioner in Newcastle will uncover the Meta Model and those who are on our next Newcastle Clinical Hypnotherapy training will leave with a well grounded and practical knowledge of applying this process therapeutically.

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