Learn Practice Understand
You are currently browsing the archive for the Hypnotherapy category.
Are you thinking about joining a NLP Practitioner, NLP Master Practitioner or Clinical Hypnotherapy Diploma training in Newcastle upon Tyne, the North East of England or even Scotland?
Then follow the links for a free 10 Good Reasons to Learn NLP report and claim a discount of £50 on either of our certificated courses.
Practically every person has had some event or events in their life that for one or several reasons has left some emotional scarring or baggage.
NLP Practitioner Training Newcastle upon Tyne
NLP has many tools and processes that are specifically designed to take away the negative emotional charge of past events. The popular name of Change Personal History can describe the class of processes that deal with this.
NLP Master Practitioner Course Newcastle upon Tyne
As a practising clinical hypnotherapist I fully appreciate the immense power of the unconscious mind and the limitless resources and healing powers it contains.
Those past events that are negatively charged are like fragments singled out in time but what came before and what came after?
Something happens to the memory when the event is extend both forwards and backwards in time. It is no longer the same.
I have created a process called Event Scope and Meaning Repatterning - ESMR which harnesses your unconscious mind to create the right resources to change the memory and level the old painful memory.
Check out our free NLP resources page
best fast change
nigel
One of the things that makes Christmas particularly nice is meeting up with friends and family. The time before the holidays running up to that last day at work before new year - lush! And there is always that feeling of excitement and anticipation just before the holidays start too. It makes you think doesn’t it, about the whole concept of Christmas maybe even good old Yarwe, ( oops HaShem - dear GOD, wouldn’t want to make anyone or their religion take offense, after all this is the UK - Home to free speech and liberal attitudes PROVIDING that speech is politically correct. I don’t know why I hear anarchy in the uk by sexpistols? ), before that and now the semi -global adoption of ‘christian’ values and beliefs especially by shop keepers and those not so friendly little elves from the Iceland consortium making as much money as they can, forcing suppliers to accept less than they had previously agreed - Ahh the joys of human kindness. The causes of all these conflicting undercurrents of humanity may never be known but if you will put all that stuff aside then - what you make Crimbo and new year to be really is up to you - and I do hope ( and even offer a prayer to all receptive Deity’s, God’s and Goddesses ) that for you it turns out exactly the way you wish it to be while you want it to.
the Meta Model essentially does two things when used ‘as intended’
Additionally the NLP Cafe, a structured, Newcastle NLP Practice group will be open for its first event on Wednesday 9th January 7-9pm. How to resourcefully respond to criticism
Its a snip at £10.00 or just £9.00 if you book online.
Our NLP Practitioner course beginning in January 2008 and the current Integrity NLP Practitioner in Newcastle will uncover the Meta Model and those who are on our next Newcastle Clinical Hypnotherapy training will leave with a well grounded and practical knowledge of applying this process therapeutically.
During a lot of my initial NLP training, the emphasis to me was primarily problem focused. Not in the sense that that the ‘change’ process was focused on a problem, that wouldn’t even be NLP. No I mean to say that the context for change was always a problem context.
People often seek out a good clinician for some assistance with their solutions to perceived problems and equally clients requiring more positive or ‘more better’ circumstances in their life will seek out a good performance coach. Essentially the same processes are used for both outcomes.
During our IntegrityNLP NLP Practitioner training in Newcastle upon Tyne, you will hear the facilitators framing NLP Processes in terms of both solution focused outcomes for ‘problems’ and ‘performance improvements’, and you can apply the same meta-process when using EFT.
My good friend Andy Hunt introduced me to EFT some years ago. Andy provides excellent and cost effective EFT trainings in Newcastle.
Here is my own version of using EFT for feeling the way you want. Before you go try this yourself, I have used this process with a very small statistical sample. About half the number required to make a statistically cogent argument, the results are extremely encouraging. Anyway here is the process and its very simple.
1. Make a statement of what you do want, stated in the positive.
I want to feel X
X may be happy, resourceful, peaceful etc
2. Now, without using the process for the ‘Set Up’ ( psychological reversal )
Use your EFT tapping routine, saying your statement created in step 1. Do one to three rounds depending on your own experiences.
After you have tried this I am very interested in hearing about your experience.
nigel hetherington
Communicating Excellence
Excellence in Neuro Linguistic Programming and Clinical Hypnotherapy
It is surely obvious to all concerned that that old Meta Model is just about hearing some language pattern and responding in a certain way. Clearly not everyone gets this fully the second time. Evidently some people were puzzled and didn’t easily start to apply the Meta Model that they knew consciously so not so surprisingly it got put on a back shelf for a while. So get it out, dust it off and lets get on with making it more easier.
the Meta Model essentially does two things when used ‘as intended’
the Integrity NLP Practitioner in Newcastle naturally will cover the Meta Model and those who are on our Newcastle Hypnotherapy course certainly will leave with an even fuller knowledge of applying this process.
clearly if you are in any therapeutic field like the many complementary therapies or thinking of taking up your calling, you might like to consider our Newcastle hypnotherapy course, anyway it will certainly benefit you knowing a lot more about this set of verbal responses - but clearly, that’s obvious, isn’t it.
It makes me genuinely smile genuinely now when some people still visibly cringe when they hear the words ‘the Meta Model‘. Others say “it’s something I have to learn but I just can’t find the time” yet other say “It’s just not possible to learn it all“, actually the Meta Model really is easy.
the Meta Model essentially does two things when used ‘as intended’
For me, and thanks to my friend Ian Berry for facilitating my learning during my NLP Practitioner in Newcastle, the Meta Model just made sense. It clicked. It got me absolutely hooked on what I then called NLP and I now know as applied NLP. The Meta Model is again covered more fully on our Newcastle Hypnotherapy course and I am sure you already know, like most NLP, it’s nothing new, just repackaged. Socrates was applying a form of the meta model in purportedly just 6 questions, some 2500 years ago: Socratic questioning. I will credit him here as he surely deserves it.
See, all the Meta Model is is a set of specific verbal responses to a set of very specific words and phrases ‘clients’ and people in general use all the time. Exactly what these are I will better describe a little later on.
Many NLP and Hypnotherapeutic processes are concerned with beneficial change.
If you were to watch a flower grow and bloom over the spring and summer, you will know that in addition to preparing for the next season of change this seasons change does not happen all at once, it is a gradual unfolding over time that culminates in blossom and the increasing of life.
On Saturday I was at my good friend and NLP Trainer’s Simon Bonnin’s and, as we often do we ended up exploring and experimenting with NLP and Hypnotherapy change processes. Now we have jointly come up with something we want to share. It is incredibly simple and incredibly effective.
IntegrityNLP is running an NLP Practitioner beginning this September as well as a Hypnotherapy Diploma course ( both in Newcastle upon Tyne ) and this process will certainly be demonstrated on both courses, however here it is here first.
This process works on so called ‘limiting beliefs’ and the process works at the level of values and importance to loosen up the so called ‘limiting belief’
Here is an example
I cant feel happy [ limiting belief and implied value ]
Do you believe it is important to feel happy?
Do you believe it will be valuable to you to feel happy?
Is feeling happy important enough and valuable enough to change that old belief?
[ if there is a no response to any of these 3 questions respect the answer and stop here - after all this is just loosening! ]
Do you think, it is now possible for you to feel happy.
[ respect any answer - its just loosening! ]
Here is the verbal pattern
I cant ‘X’ [ limiting belief and implied value ]
Do you believe it is important to ‘X’?
Do you believe it will be valuable to you to ‘X’?
Is ‘X’ important enough and valuable enough to change that old belief?
[ if there is a no response to any of these 3 questions respect the response and stop here - after all this is just loosening! ]
Do you think, it is now possible for you to ‘X’.
[ respect any response - its just loosening! ]
best wishes
Integrity NLP
